This is a truth I try to keep in mind when I’m feeling trapped by life. I can choose something different. The barriers in my mind are far more powerful than the barriers that are actually there.
The part that bugs me is that I would be better off ignoring the rules from time to time, but I usually lack the courage or the energy to do so.
If you choose to ignore the rules remember that there will be consequences – good, bad, and neutral. (At the same time, if you follow the rules, there will still be consequences – good, bad, and neutral.)
His mother had often said, when you choose an action, you choose the consequences of that action. She had emphasized the corollary of this axiom even more vehemently: when you desired a consequence you had damned well better take the action that would create it.
– Memory, Lois McMaster Bujold

